Eloping in Connecticut is straightforward, but some preparation is needed to ensure your day is stress-free and memorable.

 

Here’s what you need to know:

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• Choose a town and location
  Some locations, like state parks or historic sites, require permits or charge fees for events, even small ceremonies. Check with your desired location before firming up your plans.​

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• Ask Your Venue
  If you’re planning a larger wedding in the future but need to get legally married now, ask your wedding venue if they’ll allow a quick elopement on their property. They may be willing to accommodate midweek ceremonies for their booked clients. It can't hurt to ask! A connection to the place you plan on having your future celebration might make it feel even more special.

 

• Obtain Your Marriage License
  Before your ceremony, you’ll need to obtain a marriage license from the town clerk in the municipality where the ceremony will take place. Both parties must apply in person with a valid photo ID and the required fee. In Connecticut, the license is valid for 65 days, and there’s no waiting period, so you can marry immediately after obtaining it.

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• Book Your Officiant
  Some town clerks will want to know you have an officiant lined up before scheduling an appointment for your license but you definitely need one to make this official. Clerks do not perform marriage and Justices of the Peace are not town employees. They have their own business, schedule and fees. A simple google search in your area will yield some results and each clerk has a list of Justices of the Peace that live in that town.​

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• Timing is Everything
  Popular elopement spots can get busy, especially on weekends or during peak seasons. Choosing a weekday or early morning can give you a more private experience.

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• Have a Backup Plan for Weather
  Connecticut weather is surprisingly unpredictable. If weather threatens to ruin your plans to marry outside, have a back-up location prepared and ensure your officiant can be flexible with your date. 

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• Make It Personal
  Just because it's short and sweet doesn't mean it can't be memorable. I always ask my couples if they would like me to give them a moment to share personal words with each other, exchange rings or highlight a particular part of their story. The paperwork is the easy part — find ways to make it feel special just for the two of you. 

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• Capture the moment
  Invite your photographer or a couple of friends to join you and snap some pictures. I am always willing to hang out for a bit to take some pictures for you after the ceremony. 

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• Celebrate!
  Consider booking a private dining space at a local restaurant or having a picnic to celebrate your marriage. Connecticut offers plenty of charming venues for an intimate post-ceremony gathering.